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life, innit

April 18, 2023 12:20 PM

not feeling motivated at work at all

February 16, 2023 11:02 AM

February 8, 2023 8:31 AM

January 23, 2023 11:00 PM

how do I keep on going if I constantly feel tired

December 17, 2022 10:58 PM

I’ve had problem neighbours since start of august and have hardly slept since they have moved it my mental health has gotten so severe again, my wife is 6 months pregnant and it feels like no one wants to help!

November 15, 2022 11:44 PM

I'm feeling a bit demotivated right now and I don't don't want to work tomorrow.

November 15, 2022 11:33 PM

Sometimes I feel like I am losing control and everything is falling apart. How do I get through those days

November 15, 2022 7:32 PM

I live alone and don't have a significant other. My thoughts bully me, telling me I have no friends. The reality is, I have a few, as in less than 5. But they have their own lives, and so the loneliness is really tough. Almost every day I will see or speak to nobody. Often I won't leave my house. When I do see people in person, I feel awkward, like I have no idea how to socialise. I think kids by the age of 12 are already better that making friends and meeting people than I am. I'm 33. I don't know how I got this far and still don't know how to make good friends, or am I expecting too much for the small number I have to be there on a daily basis. I'm not closest my family either, socially speaking not geographically. Feel like a recluse and may as well move to outback alaska. Some days I can't face getting out of bed, knowing its another entire day probably seeing nobody. At weekends, I don't leave the house unless I have to. In my head I tell myself, why go there and spend money on fuel etc when you don't need to, and where exactly are you going to go and what are you going to do? So I don't. Pointless really without someone to go with right? So I stay at home, doing nothing, seeing nobody, talking to nobody. I've never felt such a failure as a human or a man. And never been so alone. Feel like ive forgotten how to have fun or even live. I'm just existing :/

October 26, 2022 9:58 PM


October 12, 2022 10:04 PM

Living two lives, and it’s stressful don’t think I like the new/real me. I hope I can make friends that like me for who I am.

October 11, 2022 10:09 PM

feel like I can't be useful enough, and feel stupid for thinking things like this

September 26, 2022 10:36 PM
Yes Geez!
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